結(jié)婚之前必須考慮的7個(gè)問(wèn)題

　　結(jié)婚是件大事。除了計(jì)劃平常的婚禮事宜，你也需要考慮將來(lái)生活在一起的更重要問(wèn)題。你會(huì)想用你有的知識(shí)經(jīng)驗(yàn)?zāi)軒椭龊眠x擇，這里列出了一些在結(jié)婚之日到來(lái)之前要考慮的7個(gè)問(wèn)題。

　　1. If we both became jobless, what financial resources would we have?

　　如果我們倆都沒(méi)有工作，我們還有哪些經(jīng)濟(jì)來(lái)源?

　　This question is great, because it shines some light on your partner’s financial attitudes.

　　這個(gè)問(wèn)題很好，因?yàn)樗剂康氖悄愕牧硪贿叺慕疱X(qián)觀。

　　Although it’s scary to imagine a world without any income, it’s good to know what sort of plan might be plausible.

　　雖然不敢想象沒(méi)有收入的情況，但可以幫助弄清還有哪些可行的計(jì)劃。

　　2. If I became a full-time professional, could you manage being a full-time parent?

　　如果我做全職，你能做好全職家長(zhǎng)嗎?

　　It’s good to know what your partner’s current views are on the possibility of a role reversal. This can give you insights into your partner’s attitudes about child rearing and professional goals.

　　這有助于弄清你的另一半對(duì)角色轉(zhuǎn)換的觀點(diǎn)。這可以讓你洞悉你的伴侶對(duì)撫養(yǎng)孩子和職業(yè)目標(biāo)的態(tài)度。

　　3. When was the last time you visited a hospital? Why were you there?

　　上次進(jìn)醫(yī)院是什么時(shí)候，為什么?

　　Checking in with the last hospital visit can start a conversation about medical history.

　　問(wèn)這個(gè)問(wèn)題可以讓你們進(jìn)行一個(gè)對(duì)病史的交流。

　　4. When you reach your current goals, can you see yourself developing new dreams?

　　當(dāng)你實(shí)現(xiàn)現(xiàn)階段目標(biāo)的時(shí)候，你能看到自己的下一個(gè)夢(mèng)想嗎?

　　Setting goals, pursuing dreams and creating new dreams are incredibly important in a successful life.

　　設(shè)立目標(biāo)，追尋夢(mèng)想，創(chuàng)造夢(mèng)想對(duì)于成功的生活是相當(dāng)?shù)闹匾摹?/p>

　　5. If you could only have one spiritual need met, what would it be?

　　如果你只能滿足你自己的一種精神需求，你希望是什么?

　　It’s valuable to know what your partner’s spiritual needs are.這對(duì)于弄清你伴侶的精神需求是至關(guān)重要的。

　　6. Which of my friends deserves the most respect and why?

　　我的哪個(gè)朋友最值得尊重，為什么?

　　Friends are an important part of our lives. This question focuses on our partner’s attitude about our friends.

　　朋友是我們生活中最重要的部分。這個(gè)問(wèn)題就是關(guān)注伴侶對(duì)我們朋友的態(tài)度。

　　7. Which of our parents do you think may cause relationship struggles for us in the future?

　　你認(rèn)為你父母中的哪個(gè)人可能會(huì)在以后引起我們的感情問(wèn)題?

　　It can be complicated if one of the parents doesn’t like your partner. It can be managed, but it is important to be able to discuss it openly with each other.