雙語(yǔ)閱讀：他是不是你心中的完美男友

　　摘要：記住，世間并無(wú)絕對(duì)的完美，但是一定有一個(gè)不完美的完美情人在等待著你。

　　1. He appreciates who you are.

　　他喜歡你——如你所是的樣子。

　　You are unique and wonderful in your own way. Whether you wake up the neighborhood with your bathroom singing or like solving Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night, he accepts you exactly the way you are. He doesn’t want to change anything about you.

　　你是獨(dú)一無(wú)二的，有著你獨(dú)有的魅力。不管你有何種怪癖，比如喜歡在早晨沖涼時(shí)大聲唱歌、吵醒鄰居，或者喜歡大半夜的玩數(shù)獨(dú)游戲，他都接受你本來(lái)的樣子。他不想改變你。

　　2. He keeps his promises.

　　他信守承諾。

　　It can be extremely annoying when a guy insists that he will do something, but never gets around to do it. A true gentleman doesn’t backtrack on his words, but walks the talk. You rest assured that he only makes commitments that he intends to keep.

　　如果一個(gè)人信誓旦旦的承諾要做某事，卻始終沒(méi)有去做，這的確非常令人惱火。一個(gè)真正的紳士是不會(huì)食言的，而是言出必行。對(duì)一個(gè)完美男友，你完全可以相信，他一旦做出承諾，就一定會(huì)信守諾言。

　　3. He stands by you.

他是不是你心中的完美男友

　　他支持你。

　　He may not agree with your every decision, but supports the choices you make. He is there for you in success and in failure, in health and in sickness, in laughter and in tears.

　　也許他并不贊同你的某些主張，但是他會(huì)支持你做出自己的決定。無(wú)論你成功或失敗，健康或疾病，歡笑或哭泣，他都會(huì)陪著你。

　　4. He gives you space.

　　他留給你個(gè)人空間。

　　Psychologists say that having privacy in a relationship is very important. The perfect boyfriend allows you enough me-time, and doesn’t try to sneak a peek into your personal diary. He doesn’t want you to lose the “I” in the “We.”

　　心理學(xué)家指出，戀人之間保持私人空間是非常重要的。完美男友會(huì)留給你充足的“自我時(shí)間”，而且不會(huì)想偷瞄一眼你的日記。他不會(huì)要求你只有“我們”而舍棄“自我”。

　　5. He is not jealous or insecure.

　　他不善妒，不缺乏安全感。

　　Did she just check him out? Who is that guy who texted her in the middle of the night? What is she doing on a Saturday night without me? Nope, this man doesn’t waste time on such silly questions. He trusts you and is certain that you trust him.

　　“她是不是剛看了那個(gè)男的一眼?”“那是哪個(gè)男的大半夜的給她發(fā)短信?”“周六晚上，我不在身邊，她在干嘛呢?”——不，一個(gè)完美男友不會(huì)浪費(fèi)時(shí)間瞎想這些問(wèn)題。他信任你，而且也深知你信任他。

　　6. He gets along with your family.

　　他和你的親人相處融洽。

　　You don’t need to fret when it comes to meeting the family. The perfect guy puts on his best behavior in front of your parents and tries to befriend your sibling. Dream come true when he comfortably fits in with your family on thanksgiving dinners.

　　當(dāng)你帶他去見(jiàn)家長(zhǎng)的時(shí)候，你不會(huì)焦慮不安。一個(gè)完美男友在你的父母面前會(huì)表現(xiàn)出最完美的舉止，也會(huì)對(duì)你的兄弟姐妹非常友善。當(dāng)你在感恩節(jié)的晚餐席上，發(fā)現(xiàn)他完全融入了你的家庭，這真是美夢(mèng)成真的幸福一刻。

　　7. He makes you feel beautiful.

　　他讓你感覺(jué)你很美。

　　You don’t have to be Scarlet Johansson or Angelina Jolie to feel pretty. When you are with him, you feel like the most attractive woman on Earth. He treats you like his princess, and rightfully so.

　　即使你姿色不如斯嘉麗·約翰遜或者安吉麗娜·朱莉，你也可以覺(jué)得自己很美。當(dāng)你和他在一起的時(shí)候，你會(huì)覺(jué)得你是世界上最有魅力的女人。他會(huì)把你當(dāng)成他的公主，而且理所當(dāng)然的這樣做。

　　8. He expresses his love.

　　他會(huì)表達(dá)他的愛(ài)意。

　　True to his own style, sometimes that can mean preparing a home cooked meal, surprising you at the airport or simply saying “I love you.

　　一個(gè)名符其實(shí)的完美男友會(huì)用各種方式表達(dá)他的愛(ài)意，有時(shí)是準(zhǔn)備一頓家常飯菜，有時(shí)是在機(jī)場(chǎng)接你、好給你一個(gè)驚喜，有時(shí)是一句簡(jiǎn)簡(jiǎn)單單的“我愛(ài)你”。

　　9. He wants to introduce you to his friends.

　　他想把你介紹給他的朋友。

　　Hiding you from his close pals and deliberately being “single” on Facebook can mean a red flag. A man in love wants you to be part of his social life and show you off to friends, because he thinks you are great.

　　如果他會(huì)避免你和他的兄弟們見(jiàn)面，或者故意在臉書(shū)網(wǎng)上顯示自己處于“單身”狀態(tài)，那么你們的感情就亮起紅燈了。一個(gè)愛(ài)你的男人會(huì)非常欣賞你，會(huì)希望你成為他的社交生活的一部分，希望能在他的朋友面前為你而顯擺。

　　10. He makes you a better person.

　　他使你成為更好的人。

　　You are already amazing, but being with him brings out the best in you. It’s like having a personal male cheerleader! Your strengths are further amplified, and you think life just can’t get any better.

　　你已經(jīng)非常好了，但和他在一起使你成為更好的自己。這就好像你擁有一名個(gè)人專(zhuān)屬的男性拉拉隊(duì)隊(duì)長(zhǎng)一樣!你感覺(jué)自己更有勇氣了，而且生活再完美不過(guò)了。

　　Remember that perfection doesn’t exist, but there is someone imperfectly perfect out there for you.

　　記住，世間并無(wú)絕對(duì)的完美，但是一定有一個(gè)不完美的完美情人在等待著你。